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You say tomato, I say to-mah-to… You say giblet (hard ‘g’), I say giblet (soft ‘g’) -- let’s call the whole thing off.
And we did call the whole thing off, after I read X’s blackberry seven years ago.
I knew, in an instant, my perception of my marriage was all wrong. How did I get it so WRONG?
What comes first? Perception or reality? Which begets which? And what wins in the end? Is there an end?
Boy, this can get tiring.
So I can sleep at night, I work on my perception. The new bra, the new face cream, Target’s (soft ‘g’) groovy magnifying reading glasses, now a necessity to read the New York Times, unwittingly mask the dark circles under my eyes. A solution for my vanity and vision. A two for one deal! I look better. I feel better. I see.
For a moment.
Then I realize I’m the generic “blonde divorced woman” dropping off the kids at school, interchangeable with one or more of the others in the blur of the schoolyard.
Does the blur hurt? Or does it feel comfortable. I’m not alone.
My kids are still young enough to perceive me as great. And beautiful. But I’m still relegated to the servants’ quarters in their crayoned dream house. Everyone knows this is motherhood's reality, not perception.
Do other peoples’ perceptions shortchange me, make me less than I want to be or thought I was? Does it challenge me to look better, act differently and therefore become someone I am not?
We are constantly updating ourselves, and constantly revised and altered by others.
But in the end, or even in the middle, there is one big bowl of chicken soup for the soul. Also, in this edition of DivorcingDaze, singer-songwriter Liz Fodor's Never Say Goodbye in an Email

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Can you separate yourself from your family? What are the consequences? Keeping your distance may be useful on one level, but may result in unforeseen, even hurtful circumstances you hadn't counted on. Also, the neighbors move in with three dogs, the Lauries appreciate the luxury of lounge wear and spot some squirrels squabbling. Is there divorce in the urban animal kingdom? And Laurie1 gets a message in a bottle. Happy Birthday Laurie2!

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We were hoping the shameless headline would heat up your Moo Goo Gai Pan, because once you walk in the door at DivorcingDaze this week, you won't be hungry for hours later. The Lauries serve up a spicy menu of saucy selections this week. Laurie tangles with the cops, and Laurie 2 suggests that Letterman's not the only one cooking with a colleague. How about you? Ever slept with a co-worker?

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Mercury is in retrograde, some say. Joey the cat is not feeling well, and everything is breaking. Laurie2 breaks bread with new guy, the Lauries agree that Juliana Margulies is hot, and one listener is sleepless in Singapore. Now stop texting and listen.

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Summer is over and Laurie and Laurie are back. A houseguest from hell, garter belt mysteries, a new cat named Fellini, bigger kids, and the divorce business is better than ever.


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Self-checkout is a good idea in most cases. Before you leave home, in front of the mirror, a quiet moment of contemplation...but at IKEA, not so much. Laurie & Laurie once again give you a reason to click. Check out this summer drink of DivorcingDaze.
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Laurie interviews Jill Abrahams, Founder and Executive Producer of CherryTV.com. Juicy.

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The Memorial Day edition of DivorcingDaze is on the grill. From a listener: Boy and girl meet girl. Girl likes girl. Boy, not so much. And Laurie1 returns to the lecherous hairdresser, this time, with Laurie2. Wondering how that worked out? Also, wedding crashers and weddings crashed. How your post-divorce relationships affect your kids.

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Laurie 2 is in kind of a bad mood. Which is weird, since Laurie 1 is the one who DID NOT get flowers and who has been having computer problems. But they are friends, so the podcast must continue. Laurie1 is the forgiving type. And she's the editor. They talk about racy emails, dog-walkers, city life. And listener mail.


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DivorcingDaze is back. And everything is getting green again. Green may be the theme.  Laurie2 suggests we check out FreeCycle, Laurie1 has a green-screen plan for her circa 1995 TV, and if you think the grass is greener, look again. And listener mail from Singapore. Today's important keywords: condoms, chocolate, recycling, TV, Singapore, gossip, games, happiness, married, divorce.
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What to do when the best haircut you’ve had in years comes with a price higher than advertised: the hairdresser made a pass. An aggressive pass. In New York City, when you find a great restaurant, a great apartment, or a great haircut at a great price, it’s not so easy to give it up. Sexless marriage, sex with other women, wedding day doubts and cheaters' confessions are also discussed, dissected and debated in this, the latest edition of DivorcingDaze.

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Nibbling at salad bars?  Tray Nazis at school?  Cleavage rejuvenation?  WEDDING BELLS?  It must be March Madness, so listen in as the Lauries discuss. Plus, do the Lauries actually say it is OK to cheat??  You heard it here first...just push the red button....

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Can you be happy in a marriage or relationship when your partner is not? What is that? Denial? Wishful thinking?
Laurie and Laurie talk about their relationships, past and present, through the prism of time and a lot of laughter, of course, in this edition of DivorcingDaze. And what about the cheaters? Where are you ? Who are you? The Lauries want to hear from you. Why did you leave? Sometimes it takes more courage to leave than it does to stay. Write to us and have your say.

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Just one money-saving tip in our own bailout package podcast. Want more? Borrow other people's stuff, charge your phone at the office, make playdates in place of babysitters. Even more? Click on the red button. Happy Valentine's Day!

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As Valentines Day approaches, we are reminded of those three little words we keep hearing: In this economy...
Go ahead, count how many times you hear that in a day. Anyway, we still talk about the things you want to hear: underwear, fat dolls, kids named after dictators, and other important stuff.
In this economy, you need us more.


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Here at DivorcingDaze, we're proud to bring you nothing but the issues central to our survival as a nation, a people, a race. So, if you are noodling the neighbor or sleeping with a stranger only in your dreams, is that cheating? Hmmmm. Listen to the Lauries dance with this dilemma. Also: Barbie-doll beauty beheld, out-of-the-box thoughts about Laurie’s lingerie, multiple divorces, a kidney reclaimed and a new era inaugurated.

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Happy January. The Lauries return with wishes that you all have a happy and healthy 2009, with no resolutions other than to accept life day by day - with laughter. This edition of DivorcingDaze features some listener-submitted, solo-holiday tips good all year round, a discussion of Charla Krupp’s new book, How Not to Look Old, and more on makeup, men and marriage. For an idea of what Laurie and Laurie look like, click on the video below.

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In divorce, there is no one story exactly alike. Laurie's interview with Thorina Rose, author of The Heartbreak Diet: A Story of Family, Fidelity and Starting Over, though, plays like two old friends finding the humor in shared stories and similar circumstances.

Thorina Rose's funny, beautifully illustrated memoir charts the unexpected dissolution of her marriage and the struggles and adventures of starting over. After marrying young, living in New York, and settling in San Francisco, Rose and her husband start a family. When he begins an affair with his "running partner," Rose must find a way to rebuild her life with her two young sons, navigating her own inner doubts, the chorus of advice from well-meaning friends, and coping mechanisms close at hand: retail therapy and pet adoption (not so useful); leaning on friends and travels with gay men (very useful). With humor and insight, The Heartbreak Diet is a moving and entertaining meditation on fidelity, family, and finding one's way.



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In the intoxicating aftermath of Thanksgiving, there is no recession, nor depression here at DivorcingDaze. Solar powered personal products, men on stilts, living alone, online dating, and a great Tip O The Pod await you.

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The noise coming from Laurie's building this week was not the construction. It was the Lauries cranking out the latest 'cast. And what a cast it is. Barack Obama, Rachel Maddow, Laurie & Laurie, New Guy and more. Listener mail, online dating, how not to wash your jeans. You know, you do not need an iPod to listen to the DivorcingDaze. If you are reading this, you already have what it takes to listen, right on your computer.

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Recorded just before the historic presidential election, DivorcingDaze 76 crosses the borders of some blue states and takes the Lauries to the classroom, their favorite OBGYN, and down memory lane to fix up a friend with an old boyfriend.

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Laurie & Laurie get together long enough to introduce an interview with Mir Kamin, of the blog Woulda Coulda Shoulda. Mir describes herself thus: "I’m an over-educated, under-appreciated, (divorced) remarried mom to two. I have a lot of 'how exactly did I get here?' sorts of moments. Trying to figure out what you want to be when you grow up when you’re already into your 30s and two small demanding creatures underfoot assume you know and understand everything can be a daunting task. Sometimes, you’ve just gotta laugh. (Other times, you’ve just gotta scream. I prefer the former.)" The blog is a blast.

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Laurie and Laurie debate the issues. Should you dye that old wedding dress and wear it again? Do gorillas have boobs? How well does your X know your politics? And makeup tips for tough times. DivorcingDaze 74 is what America needs now.

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When his wife walks out on him, Gabriel Cohen is stunned: "I didn't call out, didn't follow her to the door, I just lay down on the couch... as if I was settling into the coffin of our marriage."

In this week's podcast, Laurie1 conducts a compelling interview with Mr. Cohen, author of Storms Can't Hurt the Sky: A Buddhist Path Through Divorce.

The New York Times called it “Personal and quietly startling.”

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So, you run into a friend on the street, and you say, “You look great!” and you really mean it. But the friend doesn’t really accept the compliment. But you really DO mean it. Finally, it sinks in. Her face lights up. The power of a compliment, a smile, a kind word. It really does work. Try it, and let us know how it goes.

Comments welcomed.

On our latest podcast, DivorcingDaze #72, we talk about it.

Also Laurie2 has hit her goal at WeightWatchers! Congratulate her HERE!

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School days, school days. Both Lauries send loved ones off to class, Hallmark goes gay, and things get scrambled when X borrows some eggs. Also, great sex, interrupted. And it is agreed there is no substitute for REAL Tupperware. Finally, does Lady Liberty need to do a few laps around the harbor? Come on in, DivorcingDaze #71 is fine.

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Laurie and Laurie will have their say, as they podcast on this August day. First there is a dedication, to one of love's associations. A listener writes in with a query: Does cheating really mean the end? The Lauries say that 'that depends.' I do, I do, you have my assurance, really love your health insurance. Click the button, leave a review, DivorcingDaze has more for you.
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DD goes a lil bit country this week, as our redneck ranters escape from the city on L1’s birthday weekend. From mice to Mommies, laughter to Lovergirl, Google to garbage, the Lauries pack a lot into this rural rumination. A challenge to Tori Spelling to join the show and a Tip o’ the Pod round out the ‘cast as we head into the final weeks of summer. Set a spell, put yer feet up, enjoy.
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Laurie’s guest this week is Cynthia Rubin, family law attorney.  Join them as they clink plastic glasses and have an honest conversation about divorce, the law, and how you can protect yourself before, during and after. Does the judge care about the cause of your divorce? Why getting support is so important. What to do if you are down and out, broke, and feeling trapped. And what makes for a good divorce?


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In a week of messy celebrity divorces, DD's Laurie suggests Maureen Dowd's New York Times column, "An Ideal Husband," might be worth reading. This edition of DD is much about men, dedicated to men, and we read email from men. Click on the red button, man.

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Laurie and Laurie podcast from the Lezbaru, on the road in New Jersey. What exit are you from? They hit a thunder storm, bother the new guy, who is in the back seat trying to read and stay out of it, and otherwise give you a tantalizing look behind-the-scenes of the number one divorce podcast on iTunes. This one is a light, frothy summer drink. Play it while you grill, lie on the beach, frolic in the pool.


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Laurie 2 has an informative interview with positive psychologist Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein, author of "The Enchanted Self - A Positive Therapy."

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As long as you know we don't know what we're talking about, we'll be fine. But third graders are in the know about Obama. In DD64's Listener Mail segment, putting the X in his place and out of your place, a listener wedding, and asking the right questions before getting married. We're still looking for the things you cannot live without, so, send them in. It's been hot and steamy in New York, but we slaved over a hot computer anyway to bring you our latest.

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Today on DivorcingDaze #63, Laurie 1 interviews Laura Dave, author of "The Divorce Party," just published.

 

On their 35th anniversary, Gwyn Huntington and her husband Thomas have invited friends and family to their Montauk home. Instead of celebrating their decades-long love, they are toasting their divorce. This also marks the weekend that their son brings home his fiancée, Maggie Mackenzie, for the first time. Maggie thought she was joining a perfect family, but she is about to reckon with some uncomfortable truths about the man she wants to marry.



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In DivorcingDaze 62, Laurie & Laurie want to know...What can't you live without? Some politicians can't seem to live without a second family. You can't live without milk for the kids, dog food, and gas, despite the climbing prices. Some people can't live without Google, but there's a lot to be said for human search engines. And, the headline question, "Wouldn't it be fun to sleep with someone else?" Go ahead, you know you want to...

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In DD 61, dinner out with a seemingly normal family, an exploration of emotional availability and the good fortune of a well-timed vacation round out the 'cast this week. And an interview with the lovely and talented Susan Sarandon, starring in the upcoming "Speed Racer," in which she plays a loving and supportive mom, like in real life. The Lauries are fans. There's more but if we told you here, you wouldn't...



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The hot red boots may be gone, but their souls live on. Laurie & Laurie ponder pigs, pork and park benches. And they wonder what all the buzz is about Dr. Phil and rumors of his divorce. If anyone out there knows the real story, please send the scoop. This podcast is meant for playin’...and you know what to do.


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Laurie interviews Vanessa Van Petten, author of “You're Grounded!: How to Stop Fighting and Make the Teenage Years Easier�? and the Teens Today blog.


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Tax day is near, time to get your assets in gear. Speaking of assets, Laurie and Laurie ponder their division, including the cleaning lady. Doesn't divorce mean you live in separate homes? And get your own damned doorman? Divide, already! There's more stuff about the significance of sharing assets of the chocolate chip kind, a trip to the Farmer's Market and looking back on love. Check out the Newsweek story on The Divorce Generation in our news section, and some new links to favorite blogs.


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"Enough! Alright. This one time, this one time I'll let you ask me about my affairs..." -Michael Corleone

Laurie & Laurie talk about the future of DivorcingDaze, just this once.


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DivorcingDaze 56 is not to be missed, so pay attention. Today's discussion ranges from the halls of power to the jungles of Indonesia and is all about cheating, faithfulness, kids, romance and married love. And the Lauries wonder, "Are there any prostitutes listening?"
Monkeys, monogamy, and Ménage à trois are also among the topics today. There are links to the articles referenced in the podcast, below, so put the kids to bed, pour a glass of wine, and start clicking. Oh, and please write to us and tell us if you think Silda should leave Elliot.

The NY Mag Spitzer Article
The Atlantic Monthly Article - Marry Him!
NY Times' Faithfulness Is a Fantasy

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Thank you, Governor Spitzer. L & L discuss the foibles of New York's First Citizen, letters from the Tooth Fairy, tipping gone wild, kid stories, and more. A special musical guest rounds out DivorcingDaze #55. Enjoy!

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There is an old saying, "The camera does not lie." Does your wedding photographer see what you were not yet able to see? Can she predict, through her lens, success or failure in marriage? More on old wedding bands and what to do with them, a call from Hillary and an arresting moment on the subway steps. Laurie and Laurie, podcasting from snowy New York City, in DivorcingDaze 54.

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You asked for it, you got it: Laurie2 opens up. Other mysteries solved, answers found in this week's DivorcingDaze. Laurie and Laurie get to the heart of the wedding ring, whatever happened to Rebecca, and sometimes Mr. Rogers says it best.

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When your dog is smiling, the whole world smiles with him. As does DivorcingDaze. Today, the Lauries resolve to keep the not-so-new orange sofa coffee-free, deliver red-faced responses to reader mail (from Laurie1's mom) and Laurie2 has the writer's strike blues. Plus, laughing out loud with Nora Ephron, exploring the science of romance and clearing up any remaining confusion about Minstrel Headaches. Oh, and a tip of the pod. Step up and vote row DD.

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"Sooner or later all the people of the world will have to discover how to live together."
-Martin Luther King, Jr.

If you clink, you drink. Words of wisdom from our own Laurie and Laurie. Fittingly, today's topics include celebrity rehab, being on the verge of vegetarianism, and kids' tips for 40-something moms. Also, Luigi goes green, and Laurie2 forgets herself and gets all dreamy about men in prison. Join the discussion, too, on our Yahoo! Group, by clicking the link at the top of this page.

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Oy vey, I'm gay! Transcribe this: Divorced Barbie, a matriarchal tribe in China, shopping adventures at Fairway. Get in the checkout line for DD50, like no other podcast.

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Merry Christmas! A present for all of us comes with this interview with Laurie Perry aka Crazy Aunt Purl, blogger and author of "Drunk, Divorced & Covered in Cat Hair (The True-Life Misadventures of a 30-Something Who Learned to Knit After He Split.)" Click on the red button.

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Crazy Love. Monkey Love. Big Love. The Lauries examine those wacky primates and polygamists in DD 48. Plus, female social networking, wrinkle remedies and a couple of tips o the pod. Click on the red button.

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Today on DD, Laurie1 interviews Katherine Doughtie and Jill Doughtie about their blog "The DHX." Sisters? Nope. Katherine is the mom. Jill is the stepmom. Somehow, they make it work. And they blog about it. Together.

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A post-pre-Thanksgiving podcast. No leftovers here. Laurie2 gets blamed for her girlfriend's breakup. Evidence that EVERYONE can listen and learn from our podcasts. And the Lauries ask: "Can you climb down a ladder lookin' sexy?" Tyra Banks probably can. But would she know what to do when a friend is having an affair? Click on the red button.

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We may know why that woman is smiling. The Thanksgiving 2007 Special is here, replete with all the fixins for a podcasting feast. L1 has a shoe-shopping tip, L2 dishes Duran Duran’s dainties, and together they deliver a delicious DivorcingDaze, just in time for the holiday. Click on the red button and let bake for 22 minutes.

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Halloween in New York City is pretty much just like any other day, except the stories are better. Witches bad and good, dumb-ass ladies and kids in the hood. The Lauries have a tricky tale or two, come on, get happy, you know what to do.

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Does Al Gore listen to DivorcingDaze as he shovels kitchen scraps into the compost pile? Are pedestrians out to get Laurie1? Can we blame Rhoda Morganstern for everything? DivorcingDaze is stopped at the light, ready to make a left. Blow your horn at chat@divorcingdaze.com.

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They’re like The Car Talk guys, only not. Laurie and Laurie discuss sunroofs, heated seats, the pleasures of vintage automobiles. And speaking of pleasure, Laurie 2 has a tip o’ the pod for you in that category, but you have to listen to the whole show to hear it. Also tonight, funny graffiti, courtroom drama, a funny Mama.

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Hide the homework, hide the cookies...and for pete's sake hide the podcasts!

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We're still here. This one was recorded a couple of weeks ago, before, well, before the official end of Summer: why we love Canada, yes, we do sometimes walk the dog behind the police station and you know, you just can't talk to a crazy person. All this and more in the fortieth edition of DivorcingDaze, made fresh for you right here in New York City.

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Laurie & Laurie talk about the new movie FEAST OF LOVE, directed by Robert Benton. When a nice coffee shop owner (Greg Kinnear) has his life thrown into turmoil after his wife (Selma Blair) leaves him for another woman (Alexa Davalos), his best friend (Morgan Freeman) does his best to encourage him to get back into the dating pool. It actually works, but when the single guy gets involved with a pretty blonde (Radha Mitchell), will he only get his heart broken all over again? Click just below to listen.

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Laurie and Laurie are back!

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Laurie invited "New Guy" to fill in for the vacationing Laurie2. So it follows that tonight's topics include their online dating experiences and observations on the state of divorce. Long marriages, dumb books, slumber parties and a shared tip o' the pod round out this late summer edition of DivorcingDaze.

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Laurie1 models her new bathing suit for X. Laurie2 considers her car for sex. Exploring doubts, red flags, Father's Day wishes and memories. Happy Independence Day to all of you!

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Today's edition of DD explores eight kinds of love, Target moving in on Vera Wang, the non-babysitting babysitter's hot outfit and the mystery of her whereabouts. Also, the New Guy's daughter cooks a gourmet feast, the phone rings a few times, and the Lauries laugh a lot, which is always good.

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Can a woman look HOT when pushing a stroller? When will Laurie meet the rest of The New Guy's family? Laurie 2 and Limbo Girl prepare to attend LG's high school reunion...how will it play in the Heartland? These and other questions are explored in the latest episode of DivorcingDaze.

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Laurie & Laurie had a look at the Married In America 2 documentary. They watched it on a rainy day in New York City, put on a pot of coffee and then turned on the mic. Enjoy.

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Laurie interviews Michael Apted, renowned director of the documentary Married in America 2,and director of the acclaimed 7Up documentary series. Apted is also a prolific feature film director whose credits include Coal Miner's Daughter,Gorillas in the Mist,Nell,and the James Bond thriller, The World Is Not Enough. Amazing Grace, Apted's film about the life of William Wilberforce and the fight to end slavery, was in theaters earlier in 2007.

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Category: podcasts -- posted at: 11:18 AM

Lust, laughter and lesbians are on the Lauries' lists tonight. They hobnob with Hillary, Rosie, Barbara & Martha. Confessions of X's cleaning lady, pet peeves and a shout-out to Port Moody.

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Did X cheat? Or was he just shopping around for a new model? Hear how X spins the story to the offspring. And speaking of off, we have the off-the-wall fatherly phone rant from Alec Baldwin to his 11-year-old, right here on DivorcingDaze #30. The topic is burning up the boards on our Yahoo! Group. And check out the biggest dog in the world. Grab a bag of chips and join us for this and more.

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DivorcingDaze 29 brings sound health advice, a quote from Churchill, a vacation not taken. The new guy moves and X gets cool. Talk about it in our Yahoo! group.

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Laurie & Laurie share a hairdresser, a gynecologist, and some ginger-honey iced tea. Pokey shares the family eye doctor, a famous tennis-playing transexual. And as usual, the Lauries share their secrets and fantasies. DivorcingDaze #28 is the best 24 minutes you've heard all week. Share it.

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Great news! DivorcingDaze 27 has a theme! And believe it or not it has nothing to do with sex. Join the Lauries for a cool multimedia experience.

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Tonight on the season premiere of DivorcingDaze: Lying, pain and pleasure. Kids and the new adults in their lives. Thoughts of Valentine's Day. And, yes Virginia, there is gay marriage. Click, then later, wash your hands.

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For DivorcingDaze 25, please gather friends, a bottle of wine or two, and your sense of humor. Staying in the marital home, where the bearclaw mittens roam, a telemarketer rings the phone. The Lauries are at their best this evening. Fasten your seatbelts and click on the button.

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In this edition of DivorcingDaze: Falling for the wrong one after divorce, cheating women, New Guy gets framed. Is that Oprah Winfrey at the door? Click to find out.

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Cops, cars and liars. Forget Jack Bauer, all of the interesting stuff is going on right here at DivorcingDaze 23.  Also, listener mail.

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The first new podcast of 2007. On the agenda: underwear, dental care, good sex, tales of X. A surprise announcement from Laurie #1. Start the New Year off right. Listen to us, then write.

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Just in time, the DivorcingDaze Holiday Special! And the results of our holiday poll are in:  Do you think it is a good idea to celebrate the holidays with X for the sake of the kids? 25% say "no way." 

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The bills may be unpaid, the laundry undone, and holiday shopping incomplete, but DD 20 is here. The Lauries both have dreams of X that confuse and perplex. Gay marriage and the Brangelina bandwagon. Being a better person, and who gets to keep the traditions when you divorce? Also, check out the link under Divorce in the News on the right of this page for a new story "Divorce Does Not Spell Doom at Christmas." Now click away.

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The holidays approach. X has the kids, so what to do? Thanksgiving is a moveable feast.  But moving the cat a few feet seems to be a problem with consequences. What would you do? This and more from Laurie and Laurie as they get into the season's spirit. Click away as you decorate.

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Nothing like listener mail and a bottle of wine to inspire a glassful of DivorcingDaze observations and discussion.  Should you sleep with the X?  Are you ever embarrassed about being divorced? What do you tell your kids when they start asking questions?   DivorcingDaze #18 is at the gate, boarding and ready for takeoff. 

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Coochie Goes Mad in DD17! The Soulmate returns, X's girlfriend comes out of the closet, and lunch with the gynecologist? Ford gets bold, we get sold.  Get in here now, before it's all gone.

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In this long-delayed DD 16, Laurie and Laurie banish the word "failure" from the definition of divorce, fantasize and speculate about last words to former spouses, and manage to recall fond memories, in and out of marriage.

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The divorce continuum. Like life, divorce has its phases. Before, during and sometimes long after. Tonight, DD15 explores fear of separation, fear of staying together, sleeping alone, sleeping together, and e-mail from an angel.

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Words spoken and unspoken. What to say and whether to say it. When you meet the new guy's daughter by accident. When you find your X with someone else. When you run into the X's new squeeze in the elevator. Laurie and Laurie dance this verbal Hokey Pokey and ask for your thoughts. Also, fixing what's broken, hot times in the city, the pleasure of a smile. DivorcingDaze 14. Come and get it. 

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Laurie celebrates a birthday with the girls and the new guy. When do you stop calling the new guy "the new guy?" A badly-timed "gift" from X and an unfortunate lockout. Bubba stars once again in a salty adventure. The beach, a bitch, and doglovers in Southampton. Laurie the Neighbor co-hosts again this week, and reveals her own divorce story, with a twist. Miss her "tip o' the pod" at your own risk. DivorcingDaze # 13 awaits. You know what to do next.
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It's Laurie and Laurie this week on DD 12, as Rebecca could not make this podcast. Laurie, the upstairs neighbor, you may remember, is Laurie's frequent 'partner in crime,' and a guest on a recent podcast. This chapter brings us some inconvenient truths: one unshaven leg, recurring nightmares, and an unexpected encounter with the X's latest girlfriend. Also a Sneak Preview of the sex toy store tour. Try saying that three times fast.  And write to us, at chat@divorcingdaze.com. Oh, and check out A Mommy's World, run by our MySpace friend Kristen.

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Laurie and Rebecca test drive some new headgear and discuss pet peeves, wearing makeup to walk the dog, lost shoes at X's apartment and a squaredance where there are too many partners to swing. Does anyone out there know how to pronounce Deepak Chopra's name correctly? Send us your rants, give us some love, listen now to DD number 11 and tell your friends to do the same.

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With the unofficial start of summer, DD10 is optimistic, forgiving and generous. An appreciation of what is good...Rebecca and Laurie even have some nice things to say about the Xs. But, still, they have stories you could not make up. X goes fishin' for chicken, in-laws turn outlaw, and boo-boos of the former spouses. So hit the red button and enjoy.

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Intelligent life has been found in DD #9. Rebecca on the pitfalls of assuming emotional intelligence, as she recounts a recent date, Laurie makes the intelligent choice and attends her college reunion, and a special guest joins the show to talk about intelligence of a very different kind. Other topics: Brunch with the X's soulmate, crazy things you do, good vibrations at Home Depot, and maintaining a sense of humor.

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L and R share muffins and coffee in this alcohol-free edition of DD. Number eight finds the ladies recounting Mother's Day, migraines, fading memories of marriage. Divorce as a dirty word, and the insanity that sometimes follows. What's the craziest thing you have done after a breakup? We'll show you ours if you show us yours:
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Rebecca and Laurie reconvene this week to a fine ten-dollar cabernet and the reports are positive. Could it be that Laurie works that voodoo that she do? Blocking the X's email address, Rebecca's artful encounter, taking back the power and Laurie's first fight with the new guy. Pull up a chair, put your feet up, DivorcingDaze # 7 is about to begin.
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Will painting her door red bring Rebecca luck, or will Laurie's magic do the trick? Birthdays for the Xs, dreams and nightmares, old college boyfriends, and so much more. Question of the pod: Is it possible to hate someone else's X more than your own? 

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One more time, the lost podcast explained. Passover with the X. Two briskets, two visitors, two exposed breasts, two tips of the pod, and the five stages of grief. We didn't have 3 or 4 of anything. Also, talking to the kids about God.

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Keep the trash empty and the refrigerator full. OK, it may not be that simple, but it is a good beginning. Laurie and Rebecca agree to disagree about Bubba's (Laurie's 200 lb. dog) 'vibe-patrol.' Also tonight, working to get the Xs off the radar, unwanted invitations and meeting yourself in someone else.

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Life is better these days. Friendship, sex, dead Disney mothers, sex, the many degrees of separation, and the importance of a good dog are among the topics this evening. Pour yourself a glass of wine and join us for DivorcingDaze #3.

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Laurie and Rebecca share their adventures in divorce, mourn the loss of DivorcingDaze #1 and finish off a nice bottle of Pinot Noir in the process.

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Two New York City women, Laurie and Laurie, share their adventures in divorce in this unique podcast, always over a glass of wine. Or three. Funny, sexy, honest and uncensored. Also starring Bubba, the 200 lb. dog.

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There are three sides to every divorce story. Her side, his side and the Truth. Consequently, any resemblance to any events or persons, living or dead, here, there and everywhere and across the universe, are purely coincidental. This is my life, this is my story. Void where prohibited. For recreational use only. Some assembly required. Sanitized for my protection.

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